Performers that have worked with a Toronto orchestra are speaking out after they received a shocking email asking vocalists who are not “physically fit and slim” to refrain from wearing “tight-fitting dresses.”
The email, signed by Sheraton Cadwell Orchestra management, says, “…although almost all of our vocalists are fit and slim — the way our boutique orchestras would like our front line artists to be — two of our featured singers were not.”
Sydney Dunitz said she had to read the email several times because she couldn’t believe what she was reading.
“It came as a shock. It rather drew the blood from my face the first time I read it,” said Dunitz, who immediately got in touch with other vocalists and found their reaction was mirroring hers.
The email, which was sent on Monday, reads, “Your image is our image. If you look good we do, too.”
It then goes on to say the management hopes those singers would opt for “less physically accentuating dresses instead,” and that in the future only singers who “know how to dress strategically” and don’t bring attention to their “dietary indulgences” would be showcased.
Dunitz said she has never heard anyone she works with use language like this.
“It’s disgusting, it’s ridiculous and it has nothing to do with our vocals,” she told CBC Toronto. “Everybody looks fantastic, dresses according to the dress code. It’s astounding those words were used at all.”
In an interview with CBC Toronto, another vocalist, Victoria Leone, said she emailed back the orchestra and said she did not want to be a part of it anymore.
“The first thing that came to my mind when I read it was, ‘Is this directed towards me?'” she said. “In their response, they said it was a privilege and pleasure to have me in their company and if I could re-read the text in red … and essentially they sent the same email back to me and highlighted some points.”
Leone said the company also asked her “to kindly accept our sincere apology for the email attached below.”
Another woman who has sung with the company said she was insulted that “especially a volunteer organization, which should really be appreciating the fact that so many musicians want to give their time for good causes,” said those things.
“My heart went out to the two people targeted in the email,” said Kristina Bijelic. “Just the fact that in an email that went out to everybody … the writer would call them out in such an aggressive way.”
Bijelic said staff was sent another email Thursday afternoon saying “we hope that you would accept our notice of resignation with immediate effect.”
“We sincerely apologize for any embarrassment/harassment that you may experience from media representatives or other individuals/parties as a result of misconstrued/malicious allegations and extremely negative/destructive/evil intent,” it read.
The orchestra board has 11 members, but it is unclear how many have chosen to resign.
Leone said she’s very upset with the resignation.
“I cannot believe they are turning the story of our embarrassment and fat-shaming that we have shared with the public and deeming it ‘evil intent,'” she said.
Dunitz, who also owns and works at a fitness studio, said the management’s words can seriously impact the self-esteem of people, particularly women.
“Some people have spoken up and said the email affected them and they deal with weight issues and self-consciousness,” she said.
Dunitz said she’s had a positive relationship with the orchestra for the past few years, which is what prompted her to also write back saying the email was “incredibly inappropriate” and that “this is not about dress code, you have gone a step further and commented on someone’s physicality.”
“In no way did I want to affect the fantastic musicians and the people who work for the orchestra. They’re all so talented and deserve to be heard,” she said. “However, unfortunately, something like this very much overshadows all of that.”
She said she’s thrilled with the response that other people have had though she’s upset this will affect the performers that are talented and deserve to be heard.
“It’s opened up quite a conversation among musicians in Toronto and just generally people in Toronto and all over the place,” she said. “On a grand scale, that is the most important thing.”
CBC Toronto has reached out to Sheraton Cadwell Orchestra for comment but has yet to receive a response.
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